Trying to decide whether to come out of the closet and tell others that you’re gay-even though it’s becoming more and more difficult for you to camouflage your true identity.Still, though you can’t quite put your finger on it, you can’t get rid of nagging thoughts that you may be overlooking something and maybe shouldn't go ahead and propose to them. Deciding to marry someone without being able to feel entirely sure that he or she is really the right person for you-though you’re attracted to them, feel it’s time for you to get married, and this person is clearly willing to make a lifelong commitment to you.And more, you might even be sued, or hurt your family, or end up feeling stupid and humiliated. And not only could you fail, but it could cause you to lose your life savings. For you’ve never attempted anything like this before and you realize that this is something you might not be able to successfully implement. Coming up with a creative idea for a business venture that seems to have vast potential, and that really excites you-but that’s pretty scary as well.Staying or leaving a marriage that may be safe, secure, and comfortably predictable yet that you know is unhealthy for you-whether because of mental or emotional abuse, neglect, constant arguing, infidelity, so-called “incompatible differences,” or simply because it’s become painfully dull or tedious.